There is and is not reincarnation

In the world of mind there is reincarnation. It is this whole that reincarnates with every new moment, each new moment is creation and each new moment is the rebirth of the previous moment. All is change, that is all.

In the birthless, deathless, changeless, permanence of the self, there is no reincarnation.

If you are asking about reincarnation, first decide who you are who is asking.

Change from the ground up

You can't force out a government without it being replaced by another.

An ant can't push down a large tree. But he can, with a team, remove its foundation and witness it tumble.

Change

No matter how peacefully you pull the feathers from a chicken, she will peck you.

No matter how lovingly you pull knots from your daughters hair, she'll squirm.

With the greatest love in your heart, someone will still retaliate.

Do by doing yourself. If they follow, good, if not, good.